Adjust the distance until your pelvis aligns perfectly with hers before having her place her ankles over your shoulders, moving her body into a ‘V’ shape against you. She can then lean back, using the wall or her arms as support, or pull herself closer to you by wrapping her arms around your neck (Although this option increases the stretch on her hamstrings.). To pull it off, have your girlfriend sit on a high bench or countertop facing you, while you face her with your feet spread apart. How much? Let’s put it this way: if she can’t touch her toes in a forward fold, it might not be the right choice. Go on, rock her world.Īlthough the Sitting V is a pretty straightforward position for men, it does require a certain amount of flexibility from your partner. To truly unlock this position’s potential, make sure she maintains contact with your pelvic bone as the steady, rocking motion brings you both to a powerful climax. Grabbing the headboard and combining pulls with hip thrusts helps with your aim and lets you penetrate her deeper. If you’re having trouble hitting the spot, try placing a pillow under her bum or making a circular motion with your hips. She should wrap her legs around you, either keeping her hips still or rotating them for greater friction. Keep your body flat against hers and rather than moving in and out, think up and down – the key here is to be pelvis-to-pelvis so the base of your penis can stimulate your partner’s clitoris. To nail the CAT position, start off in missionary and, after penetration, slide your pelvis a few inches higher than usual. And what man doesn’t want to be the one who gets her there?
For women that have trouble reaching orgasm through intercourse alone, the Coital Alignment Technique (also known as the CAT position) can be The One.